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Monday, June 05, 2017

Save Your Anger for Someone Other Than Bill Maher

Everyone is piling on Bill Maher for saying that word on live TV last week. But it shouldn't be all that surprising. He used to be on a show called "Politically Incorrect," which was canceled when Maher argued that the 9/11 hijackers weren't cowards because they were in the planes when they crashed.

Saying that word was stupid and insensitive and inexcusable, and he shouldn't have said it. He's admitted this himself in an apology, though people are blasting him because of an op-ed he wrote saying that such apologies are meaningless precisely because the offense is inexcusable.

That word has been used by whites for centuries in the most offensive way possible: to deny the very humanity of people who were abducted from their homelands and forced into slavery, treated like animals and worse.

Yet that word has gained currency in countless hip-hop songs. It is sometimes used almost as a term of endearment in some exchanges among African Americans.

Which makes some whites really angry. "Why do they get to use that word among themselves, and why can't I?" they moan.

It's a difference of quality: when African Americans use it, it can be self-deprecating, and almost humorous in certain contexts -- but not all contexts. When whites use it against blacks, it is always an insult, even if it's intended as a jest.

Hearing a white person say that word pours salt in an open wound that has festered for more than four centuries.

Which brings us back to Bill Maher. He was attempting to use that word as a self-deprecating joke. He was intending to insult himself, not black people: he's a wimpy New Yorker who hates the outdoors and always stays inside.

A lot of white people in the audience thought it was funny too. But descendants of slaves didn't get a chuckle out of it, though they probably grimaced in a sorrowful sort of smile that people do when they see someone who should know better do something very stupid.

However, there's different in quality between what Maher did and Klansman are doing when they use that word. When whites use it against African Americans it they're committing verbal homicide. Maher's use was merely verbal manslaughter. The victim is just as dead, but the penalty for the infraction is different.

People should instead direct their outrage at the Orangutan from New York who ran an election campaign that emboldened racists around the country, instead of at the comedian who has been fighting the good fight against that clown in the White House for more than a decade.

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