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Monday, January 17, 2011

Reflections on Today

Last fall, The Christian Science Monitor featured race as the cover story to their September 18, 2010 issue. I had planned to talk about it back then but decided to wait until Dr. King's day today. The entire article is fantastic and it's worth a long, soaking read. Central to the piece are seven lessons that we all need to heed.

Lesson 1: Recognize how far we've come

Compare the images of the early 60s to where we are now with the first black mayor elected to Philadelphia, MS. That's quite an achievement and there is no doubt that Dr. King would be amazed.

Lesson 2: Talk about race like a Southerner

From the article...

Contrast the quick national judgment of Sherrod (who was eventually offered reinstatement, but declined) with a recent experience David Hooker, a black community-builder, had visiting Oxford, Miss., another iconic civil rights town steeped in Confederate history. Mr. Hooker, who lives in Atlanta and teaches at Eastern Mennonite University in Harrisonburg, Va., stepped into the Ajax bar to order some food. A white Mississippian sitting at the bar said to no one in particular, but within Hooker's earshot, "I remember when they didn't let niggers in here."

Recounting the episode, Hooker says he replied, "That was crazy, wasn't it? I remember that, too."

Hooker adds: "He kind of looked at me, like, 'What do you mean? You're not going to be offended?' "

The two ended up having a 45-minute chat that spanned the election of Obama, the Ole Miss football team, and hopes for their kids.

This is how to handle situations like this: find common ground. Just beautiful...

Lesson 3: Leverage 'friendship potential'

Pettigrew says that the at times juvenile "he said, she said" tenor of the race debate in America can be attributed to a simple fact: Much of the rest of America has missed out on both forced and voluntary race reconciliation in the South. That process, Pettigrew says, has been driven by the growing class equality in the region, which has raised what he calls "friendship potential" in the public sphere.

This has to do more with ignorance and a decidedly condescending attitude that many white liberal northerners have about blacks in the south. We talked a great deal about this in that Beyond Diversity seminar I attended. It's dys-consciousness...I don't know what I don't know.

Lesson 4: Blacks love Southern opportunity

This lesson will certainly please the libertarians who post here.

"What's changed in the South is that people increasingly tolerate the individual," says Mr. Griffin, explaining his decision to return and invest in the town where riot police once turned back black civil rights marchers after they crossed the Edmund Pettus bridge on their way to Montgomery. "If there's prejudice today, it's more of a class thing than a racial thing."

Essentially, there are opportunities in the south that aren't available in the north because of a new found tolerance. This would go in hand with Lesson #1...recognizing how far we have come. Far, indeed, with blacks being core to many Southern businesses.

Lesson 5: Don't stereotype whites

"People think the only [ones] negatively impacted by Jim Crow's official and unofficial policies were African-Americans in the South," says Hooker. "But [prejudice] was taught by violence and coercion – deeply wounding ways of enforcing an unnatural behavior. Over time, that's as painful for the people who have had to maintain the system as it is for the people who were intentionally marginalized.

Agreed. There is an entire unrecognized group of victims here just like Hooker. It's hard to see them at times but that would come with contact, communication, and friendship.

Lesson 6: Segregation by any other name...

A group of historians – including Mr. Sokol and the University of Michigan's Matt Lassiter – are revisiting how the North and South diverged after the Civil War. One of Mr. Lassiter's findings is that Northern segregation happened largely by the same kind of government decrees that enshrined segregation in the South.

I agree completely. This would be one of Loewen's Lies. The north had just as much complicity in the south's institutionalized slavery.

Lesson 7: Keep moving forward

The hard one. I asked the leader of Beyond Diversity how I should tolerant of intolerance and her answer was, "You just have to recognize it as their truth. Say to them 'That's your truth' and I respect it.'" Easier said than done. I'd have to say that I've done a poor job of it thus far.

But articles like this give me a great deal of hope. Dr. King's legacy is on display for all to see in the year 2010.

We are going forward because of his life and his sacrifice.

9 comments:

jeff c. said...

Mark on MLK day: This wonderful post.

Kevin Baker on MLK day: "What he said" followed by this link

http://blogs.dailymail.com/donsurber/archives/28041

"You don’t like my words? You don’t like my tone? You feel threatened?Too bad. No. Actually, that is what I want. I want the lefties to feel bad. I want them to feel hurt. I want them to cry to their mommies.
That way the field will be cleared so we grown-ups can fix the nation and the economy. If you can’t put up with a little excrement, get the hell out of the barn."

Grown ups? Where? 8 year old boy and adolescent power fantasy combined, indeed. Like you, Mark, I have trouble being tolerant of intolerance. If you ever figure it out, let me know.

Talk about a chasm of difference. It's a good thing that all of us on the left were WAAAAAy off base about that whole anger and hate thing.

pierre said...

Long time reader, first time poster. Don't waste your time with such Neanderthals, Jeff. They exists only to loathe the "other."

Recognizing that we have come a long way since the middle of the last century is very important. Much of the anger we see out there now is frustration at just how much the world has changed since Dr. King's time. It's real change that you can see in the stories listed in this article. I think I must read this publication more often. Another great recommendation from Markadelphia.

juris imprudent said...

They exists only to loathe the "other."

LOL, the irony just drips off, and utterly unintentional to boot.

6Kings said...

Mark, good post.

jeff c. - come back and post when you graduate from your pacifier

juris imprudent said...

It's a good thing that all of us on the left were WAAAAAy off base about that whole anger and hate thing.

Yeah, it was all of those Tea Party participants that started referring to themselves as "teabaggers".

Your call for civility rings hollow and hypocritical.

lee said...

Don't you think, Jeff, that much of what we see coming from the right is a last gasp? I don't see the Tea Party lasting much past this current economic downturn. It's a fad. People whine generally about government spending but when it comes to specifics, they don't want most programs cut. The author in the link provided is just like that. It's a bunch of hot air that will go nowhere and slowly return to the fringes where it belongs.

Haplo9 said...

>"You just have to recognize it as their truth. Say to them 'That's your truth' and I respect it.'"

Heard that sort of phrasing a lot in college and it always seemed pretty silly. Why bother lying about respecting someones "truth" when you, well, don't respect it? If you just don't want to start a fight, sure. Other than that, whats the point? The only definition of "respect" that makes sense is here is as, "I respect your right to hold opinions that are, in my opinion, idiotic." But that's sort of a given, because you can't exactly revoke someones right to have an opinion about something. So what does that goop even mean?

Flat Earther said...

Mark, I enjoyed this post, especially the story in lesson two. He responded to his antagonist exactly as Christ would have him, and look where it went. I can only hope I could respond like that if addressed in such a fashion.

Mark Ward said...

I'm not sure if I could, Flat Earther. Like you, I can only hope I could respond that way.

Hap-In some ways, I agree with you. It is goop. Example: Treating women with respect is a non negotiable thing with me. If you are a Muslim male or a male from South Asia, it is part of their culture to view women as cattle. I can't simply look at them and say "Well, that's your truth." I have zero respect for it and, in fact, would work to end it. It's simply not acceptable in a civilized world. I suppose I don't have much of a say as to what they do over there but if they move here and I see that crap (as I have a few times at school), I'm up their ass with a fucking tweezers. Of course, this is part of my prejudice as well so that has to be a factor to be considered.

Lee-I've thought of that as well. I think once the economy gets better you will see a waning of the Tea Party. It's a reaction in many ways. Plus there is also the issue of free riders and resource mobilization that every social movement has to contend with in order to survive. I have yet to see any real plan to deal with either of these issues.